Sunday, April 27, 2008

Kids are a Mom's Blessing

As a stay at home mom, my most enjoyable blessing is to be with my kids. Of course, it's not always smooth sailing taking care of them. But, I do get the chance to see them grow, learn new things and most of all, know God and His will.

However, it is not only them that learn new things, I do, too. While teaching my son his Reading lessons, I learned interesting things about God's creation. Did you know that the skeleton of crabs is on the outside of their bodies? That's why their shells are called exoskeleton. Very unlike our bodies, our skeleton is inside of us. When they outgrow their exoskeleton or shell, they take it off as if taking off a shirt and wait for a new one to grow from the exposed part of their flesh which hardens. What a wonder!

I also enjoy taking some videos of my children, singing and playing and just having fun. I'd like to share with you some of them here.


Sunday, April 20, 2008

Blessed to be a Teacher-Mom

When I was still pregnant with my 1st son, I busied myself in finishing this crossstitch project. It is a picture of a mom teaching her 2 children. I stitched a verse below the picture which reads "A virtuous woman speaks with wisdom and faithful instructions; her children arise up and bless her" (Proverbs 31:26, 28).

One of the many blessings of my being a stay at home mom is being a teacher-mom to my children. As the saying goes "The parents are the first teacher of their children."

Every mom teaches their children the first things in the life of their kids like eating, walking, talking, dressing up including their first exposure to the love of wisdom by reading to them stories. But as a stay at home mom, I am privileged to do a lot more of it.

Homeschooling my children gives me the opportunity to truly impart wisdom and faithful instructions to my children. I'm hoping that they will grow up not just academically enriched, but also blessed indeed as they do not stray away from the truth I have taught them.

Of course, that job is never easy. But the thought of sowing into the life of my children and reaping a wonderful harvest in their life in the future is enough reward for me. That's also one of my motivations for keeping up with what I do.

If you are having second thoughts about homeschooling your children, I would like to encourage you "It is a worthy investment." Quit focusing on the downside of homeschooling like the troubles of preparing the lessons to teach (there are lots of help available out there), or the struggles of having to teach different aged kids or even the inability to keep the house well-kept all the time (have to learn to wisely manage things).

The blessing of being a teacher-mom far outweighs the troubles we face everyday for now. When all our children are grown up, wise, successful and prosperous, we'll see that our time and efforts were never wasted but invested. They will arise and bless their mom.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Child Care - Dealing with Diarrhea

Last week, my 1 1/2 daughter suffered from vomiting and diarrhea. After 2 days, she was better. It was not really serious so we did not have to go to the doctor. Thank God! Unlike 2 years ago, when my second son had rotavirus infection, he was severely dehydrated because of persistent vomiting and diarrhea and was hospitalized for 4 days.

Children, especially 2-4 year olds are very prone to having diarrhea. So, how do we take care of our children when they suffer from diarrhea and vomiting? Do we have to go to the doctor right away?

Well, the first thing that I do as a Christian parent is to pray for them. My quote is "Mommy, mommy, I am sick; pray to Jesus very quick!" Then, I have to do what needs to be done with respect to dealing with the illness.

The treatment depends on the severity of the vomiting and diarrhea, whether the sickness is leading to dehydration or not. Only a physician can diagnose dehydration, but parents can watch for some obvious signs: a dry mouth, no tears, sunken eyes, a reduction in urination, and skin that stays compressed when pinched.

*The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) gave guidelines for dealing with diarrhea.

  • For diarrhea with no dehydration, feed the child normally and give supplemental commercial rehydration fluids within four to six hours after a diarrheal episode. If the diarrhea persists, call the child's doctor.
  • For diarrhea with mild dehydration, take the child to a physician. The child should be given oral rehydration fluids in the doctor's office, with food and rehydration fluid continued at home.
  • For moderate or severe dehydration, the child should be treated in a health-care facility. Moderate dehydration may be treated orally, but severe dehydration requires intravenous fluids

One outstanding question that needs answer is "What can I feed my child when he is having diarrhea?"

More commonly, doctors frequently tell parents to withhold food from a child and give clear liquids such as fruit juice, chicken broth, and sports drinks. Neither of these practices is recommended by the academy. Common clear liquids don't contain the proper balance of sodium, chloride and potassium salts and other minerals that the body needs.

Food can help the intestine absorb more water, which helps slow down the diarrhea. A child should eat as soon as possible after a bout of diarrhea, and at least within six hours. Milk products, because they can be difficult to digest, can be withheld for 24 to 48 hours during significant bouts of diarrhea. Infants who are bottle-fed, however, should continue drinking formula diluted to half strength.

The once favored "BRAT" diet--an acronym for bananas, rice, applesauce, and toast--is no longer recommended for children. Instead, parents should offer a more balanced diet that is higher in calories.

Should they take anti-diarrhea medicine? Giving anti-diarrhea medicine to children is not the best treatment, according to John Udall, M.D, Ph.D., chairman of pediatric nutrition and gastroenterology at the Children's Hospital in New Orleans. According to Dr. Udall, "Diarrhea is really a purging of the intestine." Allowing the illness to run its course, while preventing dehydration with fluids, is usually the quickest way toward health.

ORT or oral rehydration therapy like Pedialyte is a simple mixture of water, salts and carbohydrates used to prevent dehydration in children with bouts of diarrhea and vomiting.
ORT, regulated by the Food and Drug Administration as a medical food, is perhaps one of the greatest advances in life-saving treatments of the 20th century, especially in developing countries where diarrhea-producing diseases like cholera, combined with unsanitary water and food, kill 4 million children annually. It would be good to have one handy.

The following is a video of a pediatrician telling about the benefits of eating probiotic foods like yogurt in persons suffering from gastrointestinal problems including diarrhea.



*Source: http://www.fda.gov/Fdac/features/696_kids.html

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Thursday, April 10, 2008

Malls for Stay at Home Moms


As stay at home moms, we are constantly on the look out for deals and savings when it comes to buying what our family needs. Wouldn't it be nice if we could buy what we need and earn rebates? Be alerted of discounted sale prices at the mall? Even without leaving home? Thus saving on gas, yet not having to pay for shipping costs?

Sounds impossible? Well, I've found 1 online mall with 1000+ stores where we can do just that. It is called My Power Mall. You can literally buy almost everything that your family needs from there. The GOOD NEWS is, they give away malls to anybody who would like to sign-up for free to have his own My Power Mall. Then you will be able to earn back rebates (8% on the average) from your own purchases. Cool savings huh?

That's not all! My Power Mall also gives each owner a chance to work and earn part-time from home, if he wants to. By giving away free malls to your family, friends, neighbors, anyone, you can grow your MPM business. MPM has provided the business tools to help mall owners succeed in expanding their business mall. To learn more and appreciate this business opportunity, watch their movie presentation.

Here are just some of the things people say about My Power Mall:
Miranda Lapkin - Victorville, CA
"Even though I'm only 8 years old I have my own Power Mall. Not many kids my age have their very own online business. I think all kids should have their own Power Malls so they too can get a head start on college. "
Lisa M. - Parker, CO
"I was very skeptical with MPM and family tried to pull me away. I'm still with MPM and have been pretty successful. I am so excited to share MPM with others that know the hassles of dragging their kids to the store all the time to shop."
By the way, MPM just turned 1 year old last March 2007 and still going strong. Congratulations!

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Baby Basics - Breastfeeding Your Baby

When it comes to feeding my children, I found it healthful, most affordable and convenient to breastfeed them. This is what pediatricians and medical professionals highly recommend and what I personally recommend.

From experience, I find it very convenient. No need to wash, sterilize feeding bottles over and over again. Breastmilk comes in a very special bottle. No need to wake and stand up in the middle of the night to prepare formula milk. I just lie down with the baby and breastfeed him. No need to warm the milk as breastmilk is of the right temperature. No need to carry lots of additional stuff when going out of the house as I can breastfeed him anytime anywhere (I just need to find an appropriate place or do it in a less obvious manner).

Healthwise, it is best for the baby. It's a complete diet though our pediatrician recommended supplementation of vitamin D. I find our babies less prone to sickness. I also find them not likely to suffer constipation compared to other babies having formula milk. They are also not so colic.

Economically speaking, let's face it, formula milk is not getting any cheaper. And babies really gulp lots of milk! So, it's very good for our family budget that we could feed our children breastmilk for "free".

Some of the downside in breastfeeding that I experienced is not being able to measure the amount of milk intake. So I have to feed the baby on demand. Sometimes, I do have some sore nipples, my mistake. Watch the video later for tips to avoid this. My husband can't take my place when it comes to feeding the baby. We could put the breastmilk in feeding bottles, but because there's plenty of it, I had to breastfeed most of the time to prevent engorging of the breasts, which is quite painful. And when it is time to teach the child to drink regular milk in a glass after 2 years old, it is quite a difficult adjustment.

Here are 2 very good videos of medical professionals I found talking about breastfeeding. Click the thumbnaisl to watch them.

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